Most people did not realize that Nick suffered from depression for more than twelve years that we were aware of. He had been seeking care and was on medication. Of course, his fiancee, Sherrie, and we knew he was depressed but not the extent and depth of it. The tributes to him from friends, relatives, classmates have been heartwarming and have helped us as we unpeel this onion called grief. Experiencing this loss and finality of his death is an everyday work in progress that we do more or less well given the day.
Gabrielle and Josh have been with us during the entire time. Their support and presence helps us. We are so lucky to have them physically close as well. We do see them several times during the week.
Enclosed is a card that has Nicholas's image on one side, it is his senior college picture. On the other side is the address of a web site that was created as a tribute to him. We hope that you will visit the site and remember Nicholas, Gabrielle and Josh, ourselves and Sherrie.
Blessed Christmas to you.
Walter and Joan